I’ve listened to people complaining about SPAM for about 5-6 years now. I’ve heard every side of the argument as to why it exists and why it still works. I have heard every reason why SPAM is bad. I think back to the utopian (pre-web, pre-AOL) days when one could roam freely and without much hindrance, I can remember a (largely) SPAM free internet. I’ve watched SPAM fighting initiatives come and go. And I’ve watched SPAM creators build more sophisticated ways to SPAM people. In fact, there are probably as many anti-spam resources and discussions as there are anti-virus resources and discussions.
After all of this, I’ve come to the conclusion that SPAM (next to MS Word viri) is the most highly-hyped plague of our generation. Really, I mean, what is the big deal for an average internet user to have to deal with SPAM? For most of us, SPAM represents at least 60% of our e-mail. Especially web-based e-mail such as Yahoo! or Hotmail users. During a single day, I average 200 e-mails at all of my accounts, of those 200 mails at least 70% of them are SPAM. How difficult is it for me, as an average Joe internet user, to simply delete them? Not very. After 17 years of having an internet e-mail address, I’m getting pretty darn good at it.
To be fair to the people that loathe SPAM with every aspect of their being, I’d like to clarify a bit. A person who takes the time to establish a domain name such I do here at paxtonland, should not be too surprised when they get gobs and gobs of it. You want to be known on the internet with a nice vanity domain, you want people to see that you have a cool e-mail address, you’ll have to take SPAM as it comes, which is quite frequently. To business users who maintain an e-mail account their business provides them, I consider it the cost of doing business, like it or not it is the same basic premise as above. For free web-based e-mail subscribers such as Netscape, Yahoo! and Hotmail users, what do you expect for free? C’mon, really?!? Do you honestly expect that these companies won’t sell your name to everyone that will buy it? They do, that’s business in the revenue hungry internet. If you don’t like it, change e-mail addresses frequently, people have been using e-mail long enough now to follow an address change. If they can remember “nastygirl_in_detroit2002@yahoo.com” then they can remember “nastygirl_in_detroit2003@yahoo.com” too.
The real victims of SPAM are the average internet Joes that pay a service provider such as AOL, Prodigy, Earthlink, MSN, etc… These people (most of us) pay a nice chunk of change each month for their internet access. They actually pay someone to sell them down the river to god knows what marketing company. Who, in turn, will sell their lists to marketers… That is a real shame. It’s not like expecting to see free television programming without commercials. Those people pay for the service they are being provided with. They should not have to suffer unwanted marketing advances from their ISP’s. However, AOL/Prodigy/Compuserve set the standard rather low, very early on in this area of expectation. When @home went under and Comcast took over the network service, my SPAM quotent increased 600%. The only e-mail I get from this account is SPAM. No one knows the address, I’ve never sent mail from it, I’ve never used the e-mail address to identify myself for any service or account, and I still get 10-25 SPAM e-mails a day there.
So how do I think one should handle SPAM? Here’s my ten point list of what I think:
- If you are in possession of a domain name like I am… live with it.
- If you are employer provides you with an e-mail account… live with it.
- If you are a web-based e-mail subscriber… live with it.
- If you use your e-mail address to get free stuff… live with it.
- If you surf for pr0n and use your e-mail for that… live with it.
- If you are an average Joe AOL/Prodigy/Comcast/ forward all of your SPAM to “abuse@[whateveryourserviceis].com” let them read it too. Maybe there is a secret “nospam” list they can put you on if you scream loudly enough.
- If you want to cut down on the amount of SPAM you receive, stop using your e-mail address to register for services such as game sites, product websites, etc… set up a Yahoo!/Hotmail account and point that crap there.
- If you are a web-based e-mail subscriber, change your address once a year or, more. You won’t upset the balance of nature. The people who really care to e-mail you will know where to send your e-mail.
- Be careful where you send e-mail from your “good” accounts. Never subscribe to lists at your “good” account. Use your web-based “dummy” e-mail for that.
- If you absolutely have to use your “good” e-mail account for a service, look for the “opt-out” check boxes before you submit and READ the user agreement and privacy statements, by all means. Then, use your web-based “dummy” account anyway!
SPAM is indeed a common part of life today, I don’t think it deserves 2nd. amendment protection yet, I do believe that even scamming porno site have a right to earn a living. As an internet user, you control almost as much as they do, how much SPAM you’ll have to suffer.